Having tons of friends in Pokémon GO is not about social status — it's about progression. Each friendship that levels up grants enough XP to climb several trainer levels, unlocks battle bonuses, and gives access to regional Pokémon through trades. But finding trainer codes from people who actually play daily is harder than it looks.
This guide breaks down the 5 best ways to get active friends, with real numbers on how much XP each friendship is worth and how long it takes to reach Best Friends.
Why having lots of friends matters
- Each friendship level rewarded grants huge XP bonuses (up to 100,000 XP for Best Friends)
- More Stardust on trades with closer friends
- Attack damage bonus in raids and gym battles when teaming up
- Access to regional Pokémon you can't catch in your country
The 5 best methods to get friends
1. Reddit (r/PokemonGoFriends)
The r/PokemonGoFriends subreddit has 750k+ active members. You post your trainer code, team, and location, and within hours you'll get dozens of requests. The downside: many players add you once and never open the game again.
2. Discord servers
Discord has communities dedicated to trades and remote raids. Players there tend to be more committed because they're already invested enough to join a server. Search 'Pokémon GO friends' on Disboard.
3. Local communities (Telegram/WhatsApp)
Most cities have Telegram groups dedicated to Pokémon GO. These players are the most valuable since they play daily and can join in-person raids with you.
4. QR Code on specialized sites
Sites like pokemongofriendcodes.com list codes for anyone to add. It's fast but low quality — most accounts have been inactive for months.
5. Automated services
The modern alternative is subscribing to a service that adds friends for you daily. Instead of spending 30 minutes per day searching for codes on Reddit, you submit your trainer code once and receive new friend requests every day automatically.
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See pricing →Important limits you must know
Pokémon GO has a 650-friend limit per account (rolling out 2026). Don't confuse this with the old 200 cap — Niantic raised it to 400 in 2024 and expanded again to 650 in 2026.
- Total limit: 650 friends per account (after 2026 rollout)
- Pending friend requests: max 100
- You can send up to 100 requests per day
- Daily gift opens: 30
How much each friend is really worth in XP
XP gains depend on the friendship level you reach. The table below shows exact values:
| Friendship Level | Days | XP earned | Raid bonus |
|---|---|---|---|
| Good Friend | 1 | 4,500 | +3% attack |
| Great Friend | 7 | 15,000 | +5% attack |
| Ultra Friend | 30 | 75,000 | +7% attack |
| Best Friends | 90 | 150,000 | +10% attack |
| Forever Friends (NEW Dec 2025) | +90 points | Variable + Remote Trade | +10% attack |
How to check if a friend is active
In the app, open the 'Friends' tab and sort by 'Last interaction'. Friends who haven't sent a gift in 14+ days have likely abandoned the game. Remove them to free space for active players.
Conclusion: which method should you pick?
If you play casually, Reddit and Discord are enough. If you want to maximize friendship XP fast to climb to the new level 80 cap (203M XP total), consider combining methods: local community for raids + automated service for daily gift volume to sustain multiple active Best Friends and Forever Friends.